In Chinese culture, birthdays are not just personal celebrations; they are significant family events that emphasize respect for elders and wishes for a long, prosperous life.
While modern Chinese birthdays often include Western elements like cake (蛋糕) and parties (派对), traditional customs remain deeply ingrained.
Longevity Noodles (长寿面 - chángshòu miàn): Perhaps the most iconic birthday food, these are extra-long noodles that symbolize a long life. The goal is to eat the noodle without breaking it. This is a must-have, especially at family celebrations.
Red Eggs (红鸡蛋 - hóng jīdàn): Eggs symbolize birth and new life. They are dyed red, the color of luck and happiness, and are often given out to celebrate a baby's first month or birthdays for young children.
Respect for Elders: An elderly person's birthday, especially their 60th, 70th, or 80th, is a massive celebration called 过寿 (guò shòu). These events are large family gatherings designed to honor the person and show filial piety.
Lunar vs. Solar Calendar: Traditionally, many older Chinese people celebrate their birthday according to the Lunar Calendar (农历 - nónglì), while the younger generation almost exclusively uses the Western Gregorian/Solar calendar (阳历 - yánglì).
Compared to a typical Western birthday, which often focuses on the individual's desires (big party, specific gifts), the traditional Chinese birthday is more family-centric and symbolic, with a strong focus on wishing the person health, luck, and longevity.
过生日 (guò shēngrì) is a neutral, everyday term used in all contexts, from casual chats with friends to planning a family dinner.
Asking about plans: You'll frequently use it to ask someone about their birthday plans. “你打算怎么过生日?” (Nǐ dǎsuàn zěnme guò shēngrì?) - “How do you plan to celebrate your birthday?”
Modern Celebrations: For young people, 过生日 often involves going out with friends for dinner, singing at a KTV (Karaoke), or having a party. The phrase is flexible enough to cover all these modern activities.
Making Invitations: You might say, “我下周六过生日,想请你来吃饭。” (Wǒ xià zhōuliù guò shēngrì, xiǎng qǐng nǐ lái chīfàn.) - “I'm celebrating my birthday next Saturday and would like to invite you to dinner.”