While 遥控 (yáokòng) is primarily a modern, technological term, its metaphorical usage taps into important cultural concepts. When used to describe controlling a person, it carries a strong negative connotation of manipulation and lack of autonomy. A good Western comparison is the phrase “pulling the strings.” Just as a puppeteer controls a marionette, someone who is 遥控 (yáokòng)-ing another person is making decisions for them from behind the scenes. This can be seen in various contexts:
This metaphorical use highlights a sensitivity to undue influence and the value placed on genuine authority versus manipulated power. While “networking” (`关系 guānxi`) can be a neutral or positive form of influence, 遥控 is almost always critical, implying a master-puppet relationship.
This is the most frequent use of the word. It's an everyday term for technology.
This use is less common in daily conversation but appears in dramas, news, and more serious discussions. It is always a verb and carries a negative connotation.